Let go of people who aren’t ready to love you.
This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence.
I know your instinct is to do everything you can to gain appreciation for those around you, but it’s a momentum that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.
When you start fighting for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you to that place.
That doesn’t mean you have to change who you are, it means you must let go of people who aren’t ready to join you.
If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you don’t do yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life.
The truth is you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.
This is what makes so special when you find people you have friendship with or love reciprocated.
You will know how precious it is because you have experienced what is not.
There are billions of people on this planet and many of them you will find at your level of interest and commitment.
Maybe if you stop showing up, they won’t look for you.
Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end.
Maybe if you stop messaging, your phone will stay dark for weeks.
That doesn’t mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing holding it was the energy only you gave to keep it.
That’s not love, it’s attachment.
It’s giving a chance to those who don’t deserve it!
You deserve so much more.
The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy as both are limited.
To the people and things you give your time and energy, it will define your existence.
When you realize this you start to understand why you’re so anxious when you spend time with people, activities or spaces that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you.
You’ll start to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you, is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven, where only ′′ compatible ′′ people are allowed with you.
You are not responsible for saving anyone.
You’re not responsible for convincing them to improve.
It’s not your job to exist for people and give them your life!
You deserve real friendships, true commitments and complete love with healthy and prosperous people.
The decision to take distance with harmful people will give you the love, esteem, happiness and protection you deserve.
