When Gaslighting Does NOT Work

“You’re smart.. You’re tough. You’re Beautiful. The reason they’re attacking you is because you’re good at your job. …”

When Gaslighting did not work, here is what President Donald Trump said to Sarah Huckabee Sanders:

“You’re smart.. You’re tough. You’re Beautiful. The reason they’re attacking you is because you’re good at your job. …”

Sarah Huckabee Sanders (Repeating encouraging words which President Trump had empowered her with after she had been abused and gaslighted by angry Democrats)

Lazy People

Lazy People In The Workplace

When dealing with people, (they are like zebras never changing their stripes,) evil doers will never switch-over to the side of good.

When forced to interact with selfish people, you are tested of your kindness, patience and self-preservation.

Develop your ability to adapt and change, so you do not fall in to their trap of acting the ways in which they do.

Japhy

Cosmic Click

“there is no magical moment which makes everything change.”

There is No Cosmic Click.

Most people are seeking for that moment where it all, “clicks,” and everything, all of the sudden, makes sense and is correct, not realizing that there is no magical moment which makes everything change. (It’s all turtles!”)

Chip Van Hassel
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Emotion: the Hinderance of the Soul

When an intellectual conversation dissolves into a self-loathing proclamation…

“The Answer,” they seek cannot materialize. Instead, the, “investigation,” becomes a self-exploration, describing the whole of humanity, fueled by pent-up emotion (which they want to share,) consequently being extinguished by the arrogant affect of being the observer attempting to objectively observe itself.
As a picture of a pencil cannot draw itself, the human attempting to reconcile with its own cognitive dissonance by way of cognition is the same as the ocean attempting to dry itself off by splashing around!

Chip Van Hassel

Lack of Value

People who do not value your time

When a person does not value your time, they do not respect you.

Those who do not value your time see the lack of value within themselves and are compensating.

Public Service Announcement:

Treating a person’s time as less important than your own is Covert Narcissistic Abusive behavior.

Narcissists get their energy by finding a victim to abuse; then they destroy that victim’s life.

Be wary of the micromanager!!!

Japhy
Moon

Sharing Existence With Each Other

Today, The World NEEDS Transitional People.

What is a, “Transitional Person”?

A “Transitional Person is:
“A person who breaks unhealthy, harmful, abusive or unfortunate learned behaviors and replaces them with proactive, helpful, effective behaviors. This person models positive behaviors and passes on effective habits that strengthen and build others in positive ways.”

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Introverts

“The highly sensitive tend to be philosophical or spiritual in their orientation, rather than materialistic or hedonistic. They dislike small talk. They often describe themselves as creative or intuitive. They dream vividly, and can often recall their dreams the next day. They love music, nature, art, physical beauty. They feel exceptionally strong emotions–sometimes acute bouts of joy, but also sorrow, melancholy, and fear.
Highly sensitive people also process information about their environments–both physical and emotional–unusually deeply. They tend to notice subtleties that others miss–another person’s shift in mood, say, or a lightbulb burning a touch too brightly.”

Susan Cain


(Art: Photograph by Louis Fleckenstein)

(From the book: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking)

Click book for Susan Cain’s website.

Mike Tyson on Fear

“’Cus used to get turned on when I told him that I was afraid and I might be a coward. He loved that. He knew that would feed into my fear base and he worked everything off fear. Cus wanted you to react like a robot so that when he said something, you’d do it on command. Cus showed me the difference between fear and intimidation. Being intimidated prevents you from performing at the highest level you’re capable of. But fear can help you ascend to great heights. ‘Be afraid of your opponent personally but don’t be afraid to hurt him,’ he told me. What people don’t realize is that when controlled properly fear can take you to a level of euphoria where you believe you’re invincible. Very few people can get to that level. But when you do, a weird aberration of nature takes place and you’re sent to a level of invincible proportion.’”

Mike Tyson

Japhy’s Experience

… the pitiful people who gravitate towards me, attempting to live vicariously through me. Like the man sitting next to me right now. He keeps humming and making noises with his mouth in an attempt to rape attention from those around him; but this raping moment, for him, is to butt-fuck the shit out of my serene peace, quiet and enjoyable company and state.

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The Story You Tell Yourself

“There are two ways of telling your story. One is to tell it compulsively and urgently, keep returning to it
because you see your present suffering
as the result of your past experiences.

But there is another way.

You can tell your story from the place where it no longer dominates you.
You can speak about it with a certain distance
and see it as the way
to your present freedom.”

Henri Nouwen
The Inner Voice of Love

Health Benefits of Phytocannabiniod Rich Hemp Oil

“… small amounts of THC can also be found in hemp. The government regulates concentration levels at 0.3 percent (dry weight) for “industrial hemp” products, resulting in very limited cerebral stimulation.”

Full Spectrum as Preventative Medicine

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Narcissists use Triangulation

Covert Narcissists use two other people to abuse their victim.

They also abuse animals in the process of abusing their human victims.

Dakkuan

“A narcissist,
especially a
covert kind,
will use triangulation
often during their abusive actions. It’s a way to cover
who they really are.

This happens when the victim starts to figure out the true identity of the narcissist.

It’s almost a retaliation from being noticed, actually.”

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Wash Rack

Nietzsche and Jung Describe “The Three Stages Of Life”

The Three Stages Of Life

“…Nietzsche and Jung on the three metamorphoses of the spirit.

There is a passage in ‘Thus Spoke Zarathustra’ in which Friedrich Nietzsche describes the spiritual evolution of man from childhood to old age.

He begins the passage by showing how a child spends his first years as a collector of duties, traumas and the word ‘No’, and how he resembles that of a camel, a beast of burden who must carry whatever is thrown onto its back.

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The Answer Pits Itself In The Apple.

“…If you ask for Wisdom,
God’s words are Silence…”

If you ask for strength,

He will give it to you by weakening you.
If you ask for guidance,

His guidance is usually wrought through confusion.
{DISCHORD}

If you ask for Wisdom,
His words are Silence.

Dakkun

Sharing Existence With Each Other

“Transitional People transcend their own needs and tap into the deepest, most noble impulses of human nature. …
…these responses are the synthesis through which we all experience each other…”

Today, The World NEEDS Transitional People.

What is a, “Transitional Person”?

According to Enkindle Wellness,
a, “Transitional Person is:
“A person who breaks unhealthy, harmful, abusive or unfortunate learned behaviors and replaces them with proactive, helpful, effective behaviors.  This person models positive behaviors and passes on effective habits that strengthen and build others in positive ways.”

Stephen Covey
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The Conspiracy Within

…worked so hard over the years to achieve …

“My common-core disgust had been skewed to a a new side. This disgust for people’s meanderings, never disheveled, (this core-disgust,) but always evolving, a metamorphosis from disgust to utter disgust permeated all emotional plateaus which created another level of judgement of my fellow man.

Not that it helped anything or made anything worse, however, became a conspiracy of sorts between the Mental State which I had worked so hard over the years to achieve and the positive Psyche which was the ablative of means by which I had arrived at that mental state (on it’s continuous level).”

Chip Van Hassel

Vocabulary term of the Year:“Active Shooter”

Active Shooter

Definition:
1. An Alert to observe the timeline to keep the story straight so that the lie seems true.
2. The timeframe in which the truth must not be filmed, recorded or documented.
3. An alert to turn off all cameras, because if the Location where they say there is an “active shooter” is filmed, there is proof that there was nobody shooting anybody at all.

Google: “crisis actor

Insanity of the Religion Of Government

“…those falsehoods being society’s conditioning of humans to be polite and to pay taxes and to follow certain laws and customs, how we view our interdependencies with our physical environment, along with our political and social assimilations.”

So the people who define “sanity” are the most introverted and insane of the bunch- insane because they think that their town is secure

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The Silent Treatment

Ignoring someone is not an act of love. In fact, it qualifies as abuse

Is someone’s Ignoring You a Form Of Abuse? YES.

Some people use the silent treatment as a tool for exerting power over someone or creating emotional distance. … People who use the silent treatment as a means of control want to

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Too Many Instructions

“Let Go of any reigns which are not currently in your hands!”

Expecting the Impossible

“A Trainer
can give
enough instructions
to paralyze the rider.”
The best way to find synchronicity is to Trust,
To Allow
and to
Let Go
of any reigns which are not currently in your hands.

Chip Van Hassel

Many trainers expect perfection every second, every step.
Elephants poop in the room whilst perfection is only witnessed briefly in moments displayed as result of training and effort towards the delayed gratification of raising to the next degree.

Chip Van Hassel

Too much is too much.

Perfection occurs
only
throughout humble circumstance.

Chip Van Hassel

Narcissists’ Tools

“Pity disarms us and makes us vulnerable to exploitation. Preying on our sympathy, our conscientiousness and empathy is a common maneuver for conscienceless, sophisticated and covert manipulators because it enables them to get past our defenses. It appeals to the part of us that wants to help, nurture and nurse these individuals back to emotional health.”